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If I ever have a daughter, these are the swimsuits she will wear:
Obviously, I'm just kidding...like I'd ever let my daughter go swimming!
For the record, these are real swimsuits that are available for purchase.
Posted by Don
The swimsuit site is absolutely funny. I sent the link to some people I know since we actually know of a parent that will not let their 30, yes 30! year old daughter wear swimsuits in public because of boys. She still lives at home, with no job, no college, has never kissed a boy, held a boys hand. She is not allowed to date, only be courted. No, she is not mentally or handicapped or challenged. She is actually a nice looking person.
Amazing what a negative response this site draws, and it's nothing but a site for people who want to enjoy swimming and still live up to their personal convictions. Maybe you don't like the suits, but nobody is forcing you to order. What ever happened to tolerance for people with differing views? Oh yeah, I guess it only applies if the different person is doing something immoral.
I believe they used to wear swimsuits of that type (hence the name suit) back in the 20s and 30s.
I bet they have great export sales with the optional bee-keeper bonnet?
this is a cool site... if you are brave enough to wear that i look up to you. im a christian and i believe in being modest at all times... but.... cant you be cute while doing it? do you think you might have taken it a little to far here? im not trying to be rude in any way... im just courious
Yes, I've "taken it a little too far"...that's why it's funny!
And then there are those of us raising truly wholesome children - that appreciate the modesty and comfort of these suits for real... People who have "real" kids - that are waiting for marriage to kiss... who don't like to tempt the opposite sex with what they will not give them. Who believe there are still virtues. Who don't want to live the worldly lifestyles. Several who are now happily married or working good jobs and "successful" in life - computer programming, training horses, teaching..... There really are people out there happily living such lives. I am thankful to be one of them.
WOW I love these suits. No reason for a woman or girl to expose herself to play in the water. Sure if I could have told privacy I wouldn't necessarily want to be so well covered, but when I'm at a public lake or beach I don't want worry about exposing myself.
Sorry to ruin the fun those who enjoy watching the beautiful bodies at the beach, but I don't think a girl or woman should be out in public in her underwear and that's what most swimsuits look like.
I sicken me that so many young women today don't think their body is a special thing to only be shared with that special someone. Most take the attitude of either looking for the attention or figuring it doesn't mater.
since when does the Bible condone complete prudery? Hello, most people are not shaped like a long rectangle as these swim suits suggest. The website claims that the swim suits draw attention away from the body but if I saw someone walking down the beach in that getup I would stare in shock and horror.
Respectfully Kate, your comment has a logical flaw. Under your reasoning if everyone walked around naked, a little itty bitty bikini would attract people's attention. The website is correct in that it draws attention away from the "body"...more specifically, if I may a little explicit, it prevents a drooling guy from staring at a girls boobs and butt. You mistake attention the suit might bring for simply being out of the ordinary with inappropriate attention directed at a girl or woman's body parts. As to the Bible, I don't know what you mean by "complete prudery" but, it certainly advocates a level of modesty far greater than that which one would find these days at any public beach. There is nothing wrong with a woman or girl who would choose to wear these suits.
While I condone modesty, these swimsuits are so unstylish! I don't think there's anything wrong with someone who would choose to wear them, but it would be nice to see something that looks more sporty. There are other options out there. Check out www.ohanaswimwear.com and www.swimmodest.com. It is true that these suits are not as modest as the ones above (they're tighter), but they are much more modest than anything available retail. Plus I would think that suits like those pictured above would be hard to swim in.
I've actually purchased a short sleeve rash guard (surfing shirt) and board shorts from www.girls4sport.com. (You never actually see pictures of the shirts with the board shorts on the site--only with the teeny bottoms--but this is a fairly modest way to dress. The rashguards are a bit tight, but this makes swimming easier.
I purchsed one of these bathing suits and wear it without shame. I have gotten both negative and positive comments about it. People have reacted by mocking me, "I always wanted to swim in my clothes." But on one occasion a woman approached me and said, "You are giving glory to God by wearing that!" People can see that I am a Christian by merely what I wear, for the inside is clean and it is reflected on the outside.
Our family wears the wholesome wear suits. Myself and my two daughters and we love them. We feel very comfortable in them and you can do sports in them and play and keep your modesty. My girls are 5 and 8. I have only recieved good comments from people, though opions of others is not what I look to to make my decisions.I make them from our convictions and from my husband. They really are nice suits I have had mine for three years and it is not worn yet..and we swim alot. The girls are fine too though today I am ordering a new one for our older daughter. Our boys wear surfing suits and they also have a pair of swim shorts and a swim shirt that goes with it...You can find those all over the internet and the suits both for girls and boys are great for sun protection! Save money on sunscreen! I am thankful for the wholesome wear company and their witness to keep modesty.
Blessings,
Mrs. Mark Chmielewski
I have a question. Since the purpose of the modest swimwear is to not draw attention to the body, why then is a "Slimming Swimmer" stlye needed? Why should it matter? Isn't "Gluttony" a sin too? If you are going to follow the Bible to the letter of the law, you cannot pick and choose which pieces fit your needs. If this is truly a swimsuit you enjoy and feel comfortable with, you should by all means wear it. However, to judge another as immoral because of their choice of swimsuits is also a sin. Especially if you know nothing of their Christian values.
The poor girls will drown in those swimming costumes.
They will not drown. The suits are made of materials and cut in such a manner that they do not impede one's ability to swim. If anything they will be more buoyant in the suits and less likely to drown.
I was so excited when I came across these swimsuits. I am Holiness and have been looking for something modest to swim in. Since being saved 6 yrs. ago I have been swimming in my regular skirts and they get pretty heavy in water. Not wanting to give up swimming all together but hoping for something alittle more water friendly. This swimsuit is an answer to my prayers. As for how it looks. Well I'm not trying to impress anyone. I just want to have fun in the water but not show the world what the Lord gave me.
I would love to be able to buy something like this for myself and my dd. I am praying to God to provide the finances. I am sure of this is what He wants us to wear, He will provide the means! :-)
Praise the Lord for showing me this blessed website.
I am the mother of 2 girl blessings and 2 boy blessings.
It is so easy to find my boys surf shirts and long swim shorts but for my girls I have been having a hard time.
My girls have been wearing one piece short sets over their regular suits and now I am so thankful to see that this company
is offering this safe swim wear for christians who want to remain modest while swimming..
Wearing a regular dress just weighs us all down so I cannot wait to order myself and my 2 daughters a new suit.
In Christ,
Jolene
I appreciate this company's attempt at modesty and applaud those who prefer to keep private things private. I can't say I would wear one of these suits, but I can recommend another company who makes modest swimwear that is also flattering. Check out Ohana Swimwear at www.ohanaswimwear.com. I bought one of their suits and have loved it. They believe in strong families with Christian values, and I have loved doing business with them.
For those of you who are interested in modesty, you may want to check out this website:
www.modest-swimwear.net
Why should we stop at covering the body. Couldn't a man lust after a beautiful face just as easily? I think you need to follow the Muslims' example and put all your beautiful wives and daughters in burkas.
Yes, Kate, let's take everything to ridiculous extremes. Would you tell people who only eat cake and ice cream as a treat that they should never eat such things? Do you tell people who invest 15% of their income for retirement that every space penny should go towards retirement? Or, do you tell people who actually limit their time in front of the boob-tube that they should never watch TV? Probably not, so why do you get all snotty and mock people who simply want to dress conservatively and not show off all their goods with tiny pieces of sheer fabric pulled tightly across their body parts?
I am 19 years old. I have always been fairly well-covered when I have gone swimming. I agree with Don and Whitney that these swimsiuts have "taken it too far". Shapeliness is different from nudity. I see nothing wrong with clothes that reveal an attractive figure, as long as they are not provacatively tight (ie: jeans that attract the eyes to bulging buttocks.). However, I will not allow anything from cleavage to buttocks show in public. Most of the time, I wear board shorts for added comfort in case of "wedgie"-itis. I think this is a good guideline to follow when searching for a swimsuit. I have never had any negative feedback from this, whether teasing or scolding.
I don't think there is anything wrong with wearing a 'full piece' swim suit. The suits on that site do look' dorky' and I am a mother of three and have no attractive figure anymore but I still wouldn't be caught dead in those suits, sorry.
Kate has a point. A lustful mind needs little encouragement if the pervert lusting is determined to think dirty thoughts.This is why we have adulterous ministers viewing porn and priest molesting little boys.
If one really wants to discourage this then do not allow your daughters to be seen until they are of marriage age. Better yet why not choose their future mate for them?
Sure it is extreme to say this, but I have a 15 year old daughter, who is a good, decent girl who would die of embarrassment if I asked her to wear such an ugly thing. Furthermore if they don't impede swimming in the least why don't the female Olympic swimmers wear them and are they sinful for wearing the suits that they do?!
Whatever happened to common sense and reason? Sheesh!
I think many of you are missing the point. We women cause men to sin (lust) when we wear revealing clothing. That includes shorts, jeans and even tight dresses. Ask your husband or brother what they TRULY notice. Jeans and shorts ephasize the crotch and butt areas. while tight dresses emphasize breasts etc. There is NOTHING wrong with keeping your body for your HUSBAND and yes that even includes covering your hair. Don't take my word for it, study Gods word. too many Christians have become worldly. Even men should be covered, not bare chested. christians need to walk the walk not just talk the talk. People should be able to look at us and see something different, inside and out! there is nothing wrong with courtship rather than casual dating either. those of us who have raised our daughters (and sons) to be pure until marriage dn't risk our children coming home to tell us they have aids, or are pregnant. My daughters have not died of embarrassment from being taught modesty. If your daughter was raised to dress immodestly by your example there is still time to change that. If you give a child $ to buy skimpy clothes you are condoning that type of "style". children are supposed to honor their parents, even if it means being told to cover up their bodies! I thought the Bible, not the Olymics set the standard for people?! why the Olympics? why not follow madonna? Our children are also not being raised to walk away from relationships when there is a problem. Caasual dating actually sets the scene for DIVORCE. Take a look at the values our society used to have, back when "bathing costumes" covered you from shoulder to thigh. Skin cancer, divorce and rape were almost unheard of. For those of you who attack these suits so vehmently think and pray about it. The Lord may be speaking to your conscience about your lack of modesty. You may not choose to wear them and that is unfortunate for you. However when you feel the need to attack those who choose to you are the one with the problem
These swimsuits are horrendous! who else would purchase such an abhorrent garment except a paranoid mother who wants to control her daughters with an iron fist?
I truly appreciate these swim suits. I am a 28 year old who can make my own decisions as to what i wear to swim in. I have always felt uncomfortable in the most "modest" swimwear I could find in retail stores. I believe that the Bible teaches modesty. I view it from the stand point of God's holiness. . . I am commanded, by the Bible, to be holy like God and set apart unto Him. His example of holiness is reflected in my life by refusing to look or act like the world. It is my Biblical responsibility to keep my self modest so as to not be the cause of lustful thoughts. If despite my best efforts at modesty someone lusts after me that is not my responsibility. But it is foolish of me to neglect my own responsibility.
Hi, I am 13 and I made one of these swim suits pictured for myself . A friend of ours saw the picture and made up a pattern for it. before I found these i alwase swam in a dark T-shirt and a pair of black jean shorts. I LOVE this swim suit .I feel very comfertable in it. All of my brothers and Father approve of it. Shure I get stared at some times but I amone of 10 kids so I have been stared at all my life:-) And I get stared at in dresses too. Please do not cause our christain (or nonchristian)brothers too sin by looking lustfully at you. What is too modest about this suit? better be safe than sorry. I have also never kissed a boy unless it was in my family or a baby. and I DONT plan too untill After I say "I do"
Devotedly Christ's,
Hillary Hipps
I am amazed reading all the comments about your swimsuits!! People will justify anything at the cost of doing what they want, rather than what is commanded of them by God. Just because Olympic swimmers wear what they do, does not make it okay! We have been so influenced by today's standards that God"s standard's seem old fashion and out of date. Would you want to come face to face with Christ dressed in a skimpy swim suit? Oh, I hope not. Thanks for what you are doing
I'm glad that there are other people out there who want to wear modest clothing. These are a little more extreme than my person taste, but only by a small amount. If they were two piece suits I might consider buying them. I personally feel uncomfortable stripping to my knees to use the toilet even in a women's bathroom. My ideal would be to find something like a long cap sleeved shirt and mid-thigh/knee length shorts that aren't skin tight in swim suit materials. I could be modest, much less sun burnt and I wouldn't have to wear an over sized t-shirt swimming.
While I can appreciate modesty, I don't appreciate the underlying sexism of these suits. Why is it that these modest suits are only made for women? Why are women expected to attire themselves more conservatively than men? Or conversely, why aren't men afforded the opportunity to dress this modestly? (I'd totally love one of those 1920's-style male singlet suits).
Maybe it's because there's nothing 'old-fashioned' or 'moral' about these suits. Maybe they in fact represent a 'conservatism' that masks an underlying cultural violence to women - such as religious countries that mandate burquas for women. The type of societies that get glowing praise such as "Divorces were unheard of!" by conveniently ignoring the fact that they were "unheard of" because women were so marginalized in such a society that they couldn't seek a divorce when abused, or were too scared to because of the difficulty a single woman would have in such a wretched society.
The question here isn't whether or not modesty is good - it is much more obviously why does the modesty standard only seem to cut one way? This company is patently sexist.
(But really, I'm just venting my frustration that nobody provides swimwear for the modest MALE...)
Luke, there is some modest male swimwear at swimmodest.com. Generally, modest men will swim in a t-shirt, this is not always comfortable, they offer a shirt made of a material that is much more comfortable to swim in. I highly reccomend for every Chritian the book: Modesty, the Public Undressing of America. It really opened my eyes. It did not come at you with "iron - fist" law but practical common sense and practicality. Almost all swimwear today is as revealing or more revelaing than underwear. I know I would not walk down the street or send my daughters down the street in their undies! Why is it suddenly okay at the beach or pool? Unfortunately, there are some perverts in the world and I prefer not ot go to the beach feeling "devoured by the eyes and minds of men" And I certainly have no intention of sending my girls into that kind of meat market "selling their wares" Why is it a woman can walk down the beach topless with a string to cover her rear and barely more than that in the front and that is perfectly acceptable to men and a lot of women, but a girl who is conscientous about how she presents herself and wants to enjoy life and not worship her body or ecourage others to will get ridiculed and looked down upon. She should be honored as she has chosen rightly? Why should a mother who cares about her daughters purity and how she is looked upon and treated in public be mocked as some prude with an iron fist while other mothers send their girls out revealing all and bringing them back home pregnant or worse and there is no shame in that?? Sorry but the ways of this world continue to make less and less sense to me!
I just want to let you know that I have NEVER had skin cancer, been divorced, or been raped by wearing a 'normal' swimming suit. AND since when do men not have self-control? Yes, women shouldn't use their bodies for attraction, but it's not just the women's problem. If we can put trust in men to lead our country, make our laws, and protect our freedoms, do they not have the capacity to control their thoughts and actions? I'm not saying that women shouldn't dress modestly. I choose to dress modestly, but I think a little bit of the pressure should be taken off the women of our society. We should all be accountable for our own actions.
YAYYYYYUHHHHHHHHHHHH. THAT'S WHAT I'M TALKING ABOUT JEAN. YOU GO GIRL. WOMAN POWER. LET'S TAKE OVER THE COUNTRY. YOU AND ME GIRL. REVOLUTION, VICTORY AND FREEDOM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I agree with Jean!! Women have to right to choose their swimming suits and i don't care if you think i am a bad person of wearing a normal swimming i wear a one piece, what's wrong with it? i would like to hear some remarks....ashley
I just wanted to add my voice of support for anyone, male or female, who desires to seek modesty when choosing what to wear anywhere. Please let's all be reflective and listen to our own conscience which will let us know if we ourselves could indeed be doing better.
I would only ask that my teenage daughter swim in what she feels comfortable. If this is the ONLY (and I mean ONLY) thing she felt comfortable in, then I would allow it.
Because of the way I've raised my child, I have a feeling that she will not feel comfortable in an itsy bitsy teeny weeny bikini (she's only 8 now). I never did. I preferred the men's board shorts and t-shirt no matter how svelte my figure was. However, I would NEVER force my child to dress like this.
It looks cumbersome and awkward at best.
I think the important thing is that your child be comfortable with who she is and what she was given. String bikins are not appropriate for teens, anyway. There is a comfortable compromise somewhere.
I am glad that (almost) everyone here tries their best to be modest. But, reading all of these comments I've noticed nobody has mentioned additude. I am 14 and my mother allows me to wear 2 pieces as long as they are boy-cut shorts and the tank tops. But I think that if I went around the beach obviously seeking attention in even a modest swim suit then boys would most diffinently give it to me. Additude has a lot to do with modesty, and if girls are modest in their acts then you are modest in your faith. To be honest, I think these suits are very extreme. And yes, I really don't like to go to the beach a lot anymore because all you seen is sluts! But just being modest in your additude towards others and not showing off helps so much.
God Bless
I am 16 year old Christian and have been looking for a modest swimsuit this whole year. I can say with almost full assurance, YOU WON'T FIND ONE IN A STORE! All those other girls can wear what they want, but I intend to get one of these suits. They are the nicest modest ones I've seen! Love 'em...